A recent study published by the University of Maine states: “At birth, a baby’s brain contains 100 billion neurons, roughly as many nerve cells as there are stars in the Milky Way, and almost all the neurons the brain will ever have. In the brain, the neurons are there at birth, as well as some synapses. As the neurons mature, more and more synapses are made. At birth, the number of synapses per neuron is 2,500, but by age two or three, it’s about 15,000 per neuron.”
“Windows of opportunity” are sensitive periods in children’s lives when specific types of learning take place. For instance, scientists have determined that stress can become toxic when a child has frequent or prolonged experiences like abuse, neglect or poverty without adult support. The thoughts we choose as a result of our childhood wounds stay with us UNTIL we liberate ourselves through daily practice of choosing to replace those negative thoughts with positive ones.
“Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.”
I will share with you my story as a Realtor who has sold 100’s of millions of dollars of real estate over a twenty-year period. Externally, what people saw was a strong, confident, knowledgeable, resilient, caring real estate agent. And, I was all of those things; however internally I was scared, insecure and most of all NEGATIVE!!!
My thoughts were in conflict with my outer success. So, as the great-granddaughter of a renowned, published writer, the daughter of a published writer, I began writing about this “choice” I allowed to devalue my self-esteem, which weakened me to the core.
What resulted from my writing was a course I titled The Heart of Real Estate. Over the years I have coached hundreds of agents, taught the course at the local college and at various real estate offices and Boards of Realtors.
I coined the three C’s; Clarity, Creativity and Commitment. Working with agents through improvisational exercises, powerful questions and self-love breaks has been transformational for them as well as for me. And, my heart feels good knowing I have made a difference helping us all achieve joy AND abundance.
The power of positive thinking is attainable for everyone. Every single one of us is born to manifest the glory of Source, from which we came. Never doubt this fact for one minute. Be the super star you were meant to be. Don’t allow negative thoughts to freeze you with fear or steal your greatness. Choose again. Re-think and re-vision.
Learn more about Victoria’s Heart of Real Estate and her transformational and empowering workshops.
About the Author
Victoria Feldman is a published author, certified life coach, crisis therapist, blogger and has developed spiritual workshops.
Victoria offers an array of transformative workshops to corporations, small businesses, real estate associations and entrepreneurs seeking to form better and higher communication that is in alignment with their cultures and missions. Rooted in Universal Laws, Victoria’s workshops assist the participant in raising their vibrations to match their desires. From Vision Boards to Positive Psychology to Optimism, Mindfulness and Clarity, she uses proven tools and techniques that enrich, inspire and uplift her clients committed to transformation.
Victoria has sold 100’s of millions of dollars of real estate, and authored her own real estate course “The Heart of Real Estate” which she teaches at Boards of Realtors, colleges, to groups and individuals. Victoria was invited to be a panelist honored for her entrepreneurial achievements at UCLA’s “Women of the Year” conference. An advocate for children and Montessorian, Victoria‘s “Creative Expressions” was Malibu, California’s first Higher Consciousness Program for Children. Victoria’s program had a three year’s wait list. Victoria’s first book, “This is Not Goodbye…It’s Halo” was endorsed by Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross and won the prestigious IBPA Benjamin Franklin Award for first new book in the Psychology/Self Help division. Victoria’s new book, “Hello, Beautiful-How the Power of Self Love Heals & Transforms You” takes the reader on an inner journey of remembering our connection to our Source of creation. Victoria attended one of the world’s most respected, rigorous coaching institutes in the world, CTI. She is also a member of ICF, International Coach Federation.
“By choosing to be our most authentic & loving self, we leave a trail of magic everywhere we go.” Emmanuel